Many of us are often bothered by the question: why is it easy, comfortable to communicate with one person and we involuntarily look for a meeting with him, while the presence of another person nearby causes a feeling of anxiety, discomfort and a desire to hide somewhere far away from him? Or maybe it’s a matter of astrology, and simply certain zodiac signs are suitable for each other, while some cannot be nearby, and it’s not a matter of a person’s character or habits, but just the planets decided so? Let's try to figure out who we can connect our destiny with, which zodiac sign to pay attention to when we are building our career, and the representative of which zodiac sign will become our best friend for the rest of our lives.
Each of us who is somehow familiar with astrology has noticed that it is much easier to build relationships with people born under the same element as us. So, let's briefly look at which of the zodiac signs we need to get to know today, and which ones we should stay away from.
Fire signs
For example, Aries, born under the element of fire, will find his happiness with Leo or Sagittarius, so if your chosen one was born under one of these zodiac signs, feel free to call him to the registry office. But don’t forget about the “star subtleties” - air, for example, is necessary for combustion, so fire signs can create a friendly family with Libra, and Aquarius and Gemini will make an excellent couple for you. Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces will bring many trials for representatives of the fire element, because water is a real horror for fire, and family life with these comrades will be difficult, but varied. So if you don’t have enough adventure and adrenaline, you can ignore the planets and constellations and propose marriage to your favorite representative from the element of water. Earth signs can make a good match for fire signs in business - fire can be extinguished with earth, but Capricorn, Virgo and Taurus will always protect you from rash actions, and their conservatism will help you soberly assess the situation.
Air signs
If you were lucky enough to be born under the constellation Libra, then you will always get along with representatives of your element - Gemini and Aquarius will help you find happiness in family life, and in the service they will become indispensable assistants for you. Air signs should be more careful with earth signs - earth guys can get on your nerves, but you won’t get bored with them, and there will be new impressions every day. Water signs will become excellent friends for you, but you need to choose friends from this element wisely, starting not only from stellar advice, but also listening to personal feelings.
Earth signs
If they wish, earth signs can get along with a representative of any element, because your practicality and reliability will attract everyone who thinks even a little about the future. But, be careful with your own kind, for example, although Capricorn and Capricorn are compatible, they can butt heads every day. So before you make a choice, think, especially since you know how to do it.
Signs of the element of water
Cancers, Scorpios and Pisces are extremely intuitive, so if you were born under one of these signs, you generally don't need astrological compatibility advice. Water signs sense their person right away, but sometimes still read the stellar advice - it might come in handy.
Of course, in order to clearly understand what kind of person will become an ideal partner, it is advisable to approach this matter with the utmost seriousness. What will help you here is not a general forecast, but a horoscope based on the position of the planets - besides, if previously a personal forecast was available only to the rich, today it is enough to go to a suitable search engine, or contact an astrologer so that it can be done personally for you and your chosen one drew signs and revealed your compatibility. Whether you need to know your future and look for ready-made answers from astrologers is up to you to decide. It is possible that a person who, according to the stars and astrologers, is completely unsuitable for you, will make the most ideal match for you, and you will be happy forever, thanks to your dissimilarity and incompatibility.
The zodiac sign does not play a determining role in matters of compatibility, but each sign has its own characteristics and marriage is not equally important for all signs.
The typical Aries, strong Gemini, self-sufficient Virgo, developed Capricorn and independent Aquarius suffer less from loneliness than others. They may avoid marriage for a long time.
Aries, Cancer, Capricorn, Aquarius and Pisces are signs whose representatives get along well with representatives of their sign and live in a happy marriage, for example, a Capricorn man and a Capricorn woman.
But Leos and Taurus have difficulty getting along with representatives of their signs; in the first case, selfishness is to blame, in the second, stubbornness.
Marriages between representatives of signs of the same element can also be short-lived, for example, unions of Aries-Sagittarius, Gemini woman - Libra man, Cancer woman - Pisces man often break up. Relationships between neighboring signs rarely lead to a harmonious marriage, especially if the male sign comes after the female one.
Sign compatibility cardinal cross: Aries, Cancer, Libra and Capricorn are looking for an independent partner, someone who will help realize their goals and dreams, and will also take on a significant or equal share of family responsibilities. If the marriage is successful, then these signs will provide a reliable rear and prosperity for the whole family. Negative qualities in marriage are intransigence and high demands, intransigence.
Sign compatibility fixed cross: Taurus, Leo, Scorpio, Aquarius show more constancy in matters of marriage and partnership, because they do not like change. They take a long time to choose a suitable partner and are in no hurry to divorce him. If the marriage is successful, then these signs guarantee a wealth of sensory experiences for many years of life together. Negative character traits for partnership are stubbornness and selfishness, immoderation.
A compatibility horoscope can be a good help in a couple's relationship.
This does not mean that the prospects for a romantic union depend on the percentage of compatibility - the human factor cannot be excluded. However, knowing the influence of planets on our lives, personality and character traits, you can avoid many pitfalls and make your heartfelt connection even stronger.
On Find out.rf you can check your compatibility with a potential or current partner and find out the strengths and weaknesses of your love ties. You will learn how to win the affection of the person you like, how sensual the most intimate side of your love will be, what to expect from your chosen one in everyday life, and what mistakes in relationships you should pay attention to. We will also tell you how your signs combine in friendship and professionally.
With zodiac compatibility you can:
- Identify the strengths of your relationship so you know exactly whether it lives up to your expectations. Does your partner share your desire for spiritual development or will you “ground” you? Is he looking forward to a serious relationship “forever” or does he want a passionate romance without obligations?
- Anticipate problems that you and your significant other may encounter in your relationship. Forewarned is forearmed.
- Find out if you are compatible in bed. There is no point in denying that intimate life is one of the pillars of any relationship; not the main part, but a significant part. Do your temperaments match and is your partner ready to experiment?
- Make sure that you and your chosen one are ready to have children and will become good parents. In each couple, the father and mother distribute responsibilities differently, and the same sign can be both a good and a bad parent in combination with one or another sign.
- To a certain extent, predict the character of your future child: will your baby be the life of the party or a shy hothouse flower, a hooligan or a diligent student? The compatibility of the parents' signs can predetermine the psychological climate in the family and, as a result, its reflection on the child.
- Understand whether your partner is prone to cheating and what might push him to take this step, and also find out how representatives of his zodiac sign behave when breaking up with your sign.
- Determine compatibility not only in love and marriage, but also in work and friendship.
You should also not forget that compatibility takes into account the behavior of typical representatives of the zodiac signs. Each person’s horoscope is individual, it can, to one degree or another, represent the features of all representatives of the zodiac circle; much depends on the specific time and place of birth of the person and his partner, and therefore some characteristics may differ from your reality.
The position of the planets at the time of birth can tell a lot about a person’s character, his abilities and life values. In the same way, by comparing, you can predict the fate of their union. According to astrologers, it is easier for a man and a woman to build a harmonious relationship if they are both able to think and feel the same way and, as they say, be on the same wavelength. Astrology studies the compatibility of zodiac signs in marriage to help lovers understand what weaknesses and strengths exist in a relationship, whether their life together will be easy, or whether they will have to go through trials to be together.
Aries
Representatives of the Aries sign are distinguished by strong will and incredible stubbornness. They are able to truly respect other people's opinions, but will never give up their own. In relationships they behave self-confidently and even aggressively, but at the same time they are ready to protect their family until their last breath. In marriage, they need a partner who will easily deal with outbursts of anger and constant conflicts and will not encroach on his freedom.
Taurus are wonderful spouses, attentive, caring and reliable. They value home comfort, are prudent in financial matters and are devoted to the interests of the family. Calm and slow, they will always prefer a quiet evening with old friends to noisy parties. Thanks to their sensitive nature, they understand their partners well, but, nevertheless, they strive to establish complete control over them.
It is difficult for fickle Geminis to spend their entire lives with one partner. They rarely take relationships seriously, even when married. However, having met a partner with whom they can share their interests and hobbies, Geminis value him and will never let him leave. Despite their easy-going attitude towards life, they need understanding and support and are looking for a life partner who will be calm about their fickle nature and endless changes of mood.
Cancers seem to be gentle, reliable and loyal spouses. In fact, it is not easy for their halves to deal with the fragile and contradictory inner world of Cancers. They can be strong, energetic and at the same time emotionally dependent. Representatives of this sign are reluctant to share their experiences, which they themselves sometimes cannot understand, which is why they become hot-tempered and irritable. They constantly need reciprocal love, support and gratitude.
Leos are stable and reliable in relationships, you can rely on them in practical matters, and they are always ready to help. However, their desire for dominance in relationships does not leave room for compassion and respect for the opinion of their spouse. Despite the sincerity of their feelings, married life for vain Leos is rather a theater on the stage of which he can demonstrate to the whole world how he knows how to love.
Pragmatic Virgos carefully choose a partner, and their decisions are not always based on emotions. In marriage, Virgos are devoted, caring and ready to do everything to make their adored spouse satisfied and happy. Their affection knows no bounds and often looks like a desire to control the life of their life partner. In fact, Virgos are very afraid of losing the one they love and need regular proof of their feelings. If they manage to meet a suitable partner, they create very happy unions based on trust and true love.
Romantic and charming Libra strives for long-term and harmonious relationships. However, they pay too much attention to the external side of marriage: it is important to them what their partner looks like, how they look together, and how others evaluate their marriage. In a harmonious relationship, Libras gain self-confidence and stop seeking approval, becoming amazing spouses who can turn every day of family life into a holiday.
With those who are close to them in spirit, Scorpios create sincere and lasting relationships. They are the ones who walk down the aisle once and for all. It is important for sensitive Scorpios to feel an emotional connection with their loved ones; they crave complete mutual understanding and respect for their person. Unfortunately, in this pursuit they often encroach on the personal boundaries of their spouse, causing him suffering, leading to a breakup.
Independent and impulsive Sagittarius are not prone to long-term alliances. Despite the fact that many of them are not averse to finding a soul mate who can give meaning to their existence, they will try all possible types of relationships so as not to make a mistake in their choice. Generous, sincere and a little naive, they are drawn to everything new and unknown. Only a partner who brings adventure into their lives can make Sagittarians happy, because nothing kills them more than everyday life and routine.
Capricorns are looking for a partner with high moral ideals, strong and independent, and at the same time able to feel their deeply hidden emotions. As a rule, the choice is not easy for them, but when they finally find the one with whom they are ready to spend their whole lives, Capricorns create stable and reliable relationships. In marriage, representatives of this zodiac sign can show themselves in unexpected ways if their partner turns out to be patient and attentive enough to discern a soft and sensitive soul behind their apparent coldness and restraint.
When entering into any relationship, Aquarians rarely expect it to last more than a month or two. And only step by step, gradually becoming convinced of the strength of the connection, they decide to give their heart. Aquarians dream of emotional and vibrant relationships that stimulate their lively mind and imagination. If mutual understanding is established in a couple, they become firmly attached to their partner, despite their freedom-loving nature.
Pisces believes in love, no matter what, and knows how to enjoy it better than any other sign of the zodiac. We can say that they are in love not so much with a partner as with love itself, and this often leads them to affairs on the side or relationships with emotionally unhealthy partners. However, once they begin married life, these dreamers can come down to earth and settle down if they find a practical spouse who will teach them about life in the real world.
Analyzing the compatibility of Zodiac signs in marriage, astrologers emphasize that it absolutely does not exist. Some sign combinations lack passion, others have to overcome differences, and others break up easily. But they all have a chance to create a happy family. Low compatibility means that lovers will need more effort to find common ground and avoid conflicts than couples with high compatibility.
In all horoscopes, a mandatory item is a description of the compatibility of signs, but, unfortunately, most of them describe only special cases using examples of pairs of signs, losing sight of the general principles for all. Although these principles are very logical and at the same time simple. And understanding them will help you figure out once and for all who is compatible with whom and, importantly, how compatible.
So, according to classical astrology, whose principles guide the calculation of In-contri compatibility in the corresponding section, the signs of the Zodiac are suitable for each other in love and family relationships, if they do not contradict 2 main rules:
- signs belong to the same parity
- the signs are not the same
Accordingly, from the first point it follows that the signs belong to the same element or different, but complementary. As you know, there are only 4 elements - Fire, Earth, Air and Water. That. within each element, the signs are compatible with each other and pairs representing a positive combination of the elements Fire-Air and Earth-Water are compatible. As you can see, everything is simple.
2 groups of compatible characters
Let's take the signs with their elements in order and look at them clearly:
We see that the signs of the elements of Fire and Air are odd, and the signs of Earth and Water are even. Consequently, the compatibility of the signs of each pair of elements, both among themselves and within, is very natural: Air helps Fire to flare up stronger, and Water fills the Earth, making it fertile.
Compatible signs of Fire and Air:
Aries, Leo and Sagittarius - Gemini, Libra and Aquarius
Compatible Earth and Water signs:
Taurus, Virgo and Capricorn - Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces
On the other hand, in combinations of signs of different parities - these are pairs of elements Water-Fire, Water-Air, Earth-Fire, Earth-Air - there is no positive union observed. Moreover, even from the nature of the elements it is clear that some of these pairs are opposing. Therefore, their compatibility in love and family is considered negative.
This is how compatibility of zodiac signs works in general at the compatible/incompatible level. But there are also a number of characteristic features that depend on the relative position of the pair of signs.
7 types of compatibility between signs
A more detailed description of compatibility in a couple can be found by the location of the signs relative to each other on the zodiac circle. Moreover, both clockwise and counterclockwise. Only depending on the direction of the count, the role of your sign in the pair will change. Let's look at how this works, using the example of the first sign - Aries.
Location: +1 and -1 sign from yours
Pair type: “Best friend and best enemy” - incompatibility
Examples: Aries(1) - Taurus(2), Aries(1) - Pisces(12)
Description: the most popular pair of signs among all the others. They quickly make friends, but a serious relationship is hampered by the conflict of the elements. Frequent problems: envy, rivalry, difference in interests and goals in life.
Location: +2 and -2 digits from yours
Pair type: “Older brother and younger brother” - compatibility
Examples: Aries(1) - Gemini(3), Aries(1) - Aquarius(11)
Description: a pair of signs of positively combined elements. It is important for each partner to understand their roles. The "elder brother" is usually superior to the "younger" in age, experience or character.
Location: +3 and -3 digits from yours
Pair type: “Patron and Advisor” - incompatibility
Examples: Aries(1) - Cancer(4), Aries(1) - Capricorn(10)
Description: a pair of elemental signs that are in conflict, but can, if desired, find common ground. Alas, only in business, but not in the family sphere. It is better for them to choose a common business than a home.
Location: +4 and -4 digits from yours
Pair type: "Child and Parent | Student and teacher" - compatibility
Examples: Aries(1) - Leo(5), Aries(1) - Sagittarius(9)
Description: a wonderful pair of signs of the same element. The “parent” must show all his wisdom, care and patience - more depends on him here. It is enough for a “child” not to be too capricious and wayward.
Location: +5 and -5 signs from yours
Pair type: “Boa constrictor and rabbit” - incompatibility
Examples: Aries(1) - Virgo(6), Aries(1) - Scorpio(8)
Description: a couple about whom romance novels are written. No happy ending. First a storm of feelings and emotions. In the end - boredom and fatigue of the "boa constrictor", a broken heart of the "rabbit". We advise you to avoid it, especially if “rabbit” is your sign.
Location: +6 and -6 signs from yours
Pair type: "Opposites attract" - compatibility
Examples: Aries(1) - Libra(7)
Description: like the poles of a magnet, these signs are so different, but their attraction is just as strong. This relationship is strongly recommended only to experienced and wise partners. Young people make many mistakes with such a couple and are rarely able to unleash its full potential.
Location: same sign
Pair type: “Me and my mirror” - incompatibility
Examples: Aries(1) - Aries(1)
Description: a frequently encountered pair among young partners. There is nothing easier than starting a relationship with someone just like you. But subsequently there is nothing more dull and annoying than seeing your own shortcomings side by side.