The Don Juan man is a seducer of women's hearts. He studies female psychology so diligently that not a single man can compare with him in the number of women in love with him. What kind of love can there be with such a man?
Don Juan can be easily figured out on the first date. The main thing is to remember that his main task is to find a woman and win her heart. But as for serious relationships, this is not about him.
Thus, a Don Juan may be a man who:
- He is interested in the women around him and happily enters into conversations with waitresses, saleswomen and other beauties.
- Often uses diminutive words (“bunny”, “cat”, “sun”, etc.). The thing is, he doesn't bother remembering women's names, since he has a lot of them. Moreover, he is afraid of accidentally calling his lovely companion by someone else’s name.
- He does not react to all the problems that a woman can talk about or changes the subject.
- He easily invites his chosen one to his bachelor’s home, but does not talk to her about personal topics: how his childhood was, what school he went to, who he loved, etc.
Contrary to popular belief, a date with Don Juan does not necessarily end in a sex scene. Very often, a man can spend several more dates with a woman, but the ultimate goal will still be sex.
How to keep Don Juan and win his heart? A woman should be a bitch, that is, demonstrate her admiration for a man, but at the same time show her independence from him. This is due to the fact that Don Juan needs the admiration of his chosen ones, but when he completely conquers their hearts, then he again goes in search of love. Therefore, a woman who wants to attract Don Juan’s attention needs to be “always his” in words, but in reality constantly slip out of his hands.
Meeting friends will happen only when such a man is completely confident that the woman meets all the expectations of a real sex bomb. The fact is that when meeting with friends, he more than once told them about his love affairs.
This means that meeting a new beauty should not lower him in the eyes of his friends. The only task that Don Juan's chosen one must perform is to be sweet and courteous with her gentleman. At the same time, a woman can ask her friends about what her companion is like. They will gladly take advantage of the moment to “annoy” Don Juan and tell him what number she has.
Meeting Don Juan's parents occurs very rarely. But if suddenly a certain chosen one still wins his heart and the wedding ceremony turns out to be inevitable, then the daughter-in-law should not worry about meeting the chosen one’s parents. The fact is that often such a man is not particularly interested in the opinion of his parents, so the meeting will most likely resemble a necessary ritual rather than a grandiose event.
As for the mistresses in the life of a Don Juan man, most likely there will definitely be some. A man will not even hide from his chosen one that he is interested in other women. It also happens that Don Juan can not only date some women at once, but also support two or three families if he is a wealthy man.
The only thing that can stop Don Juan in the field of love with other women is the appearance of admirers of his beloved. Male rivalry with other contenders will allow him to distract himself from his person and switch to his beloved woman. Don Juan will leave his adventures only if he is not sure that a faithful wife is waiting for him at home.
Every man Anyone who wants to win the heart of the girl he likes must strive to attract her attention from afar with his beautiful appearance. In order to seduce a girl, it is not enough just simple courtship and constant compliments that you are ready to give her at every meeting.
man- the seducer can be seen from afar, he is dressed in an original and beautiful way. He always looks very sexy, his clothes highlight the advantages of his figure and reliably hide his flaws. To become a seducer and win women's hearts, it is not necessary to have a lot of money and be dressed in expensive clothes, but you definitely need to take care of your appearance before showing your charm in communication. Here are the basic prerequisites for the style of a man who wants to seduce women:
1. Hair. Hair must be clean, neatly cut and combed.
Never allow yourself to walk around with dirty and fat ones. If your hair is oily, then you need to wash it daily; if your scalp is dry, it is enough to wash it three times a week. You should not walk around shaggy; your hair should always be neatly styled and look beautiful. If you don’t know what hairstyle to choose, then go to the hairdresser and consult with a stylist. Use tweezers to remove any stray hair from your ears and nose.
2. Leather. You need to take good care of your skin and take a shower every day. Buy bath products designed for men's skin care. These include facial scrubs, all kinds of gels and creams. To shave or not is up to you. But the beard and mustache should always look neat. The skin of the face should be clean and smooth; if there are pimples and blackheads on the face, do not squeeze them out, but treat them. There are many recipes to combat them; if it is serious, then contact a cosmetologist.
3. Teeth. A smile is a powerful tool in seduction. Therefore, it is very important that when you smile, your teeth do not let you down. Teeth should always be clean, white and intact, without food debris or anything else. You should brush your teeth at least twice a week, and preferably twice a day - as dentists recommend. There should be no unpleasant odor coming from your mouth even in the morning. If you are not sure about the freshness of your breath, contact your dentist and rinse your mouth with special solutions for gums. The rest of the time, use breath freshening lozenges and chewing gum.
4. Body. You don't have to be an athlete to get a girl to like you. But every man is obliged to keep his body in shape. If you are overweight, then lose it, and if you are too thin, then build muscle. A fit and beautiful body gives you good advantages and also increases your self-confidence many times over. If you want to lose weight, then if you weigh 70 kg. consume approximately 2000 calories when working sedentarily. Build muscles, the more muscles, the more calories are burned in your body. Don't slouch, if you have problems with posture, do exercises to strengthen your back muscles.
5. Nails. Nails must be cut regularly, they must be smooth and clean. When caring for them, you shouldn’t go to extremes, but you should use a manicure set and hand care creams.
6. Smells. A man should always smell nice. It doesn’t matter what smell it has, your own natural or expensive perfume. But the smell should always be cool and subtle.
7. Cloth. All your clothing should fit you properly and not hang or pull.
T-shirts and sweaters should not be a bell. Cleanliness and neatness in clothing is mandatory. Shirts are ironed and clean, they are worn for one day and washed. Buy shirts with collar sizes in mind; only one finger should fit between the top button of the collar and your neck. The cuffs on the sleeves are 3 cm shorter than the wrist bone. It doesn't matter what you like to wear - trousers or jeans. Everything should be neatly ironed and without any bubbles on the knees.
Jeans They are worn no more than five times, then they need to be washed and gently ironed. There is no need to wear sweatpants with shoes or sneakers with trousers. The entire wardrobe should match in color. A stylish man's clothes are dark from top to bottom. The colors of clothing should not be contrasting; their shades should be close in color. You need to approach the choice of clothes wisely; you shouldn’t overpay for clothes just because they are from a well-known brand. It’s better to buy an identical thing that is not inferior to the expensive one in beauty and quality.
Take it for rule do not wear clothes with advertising, such clothes can only be worn at home. The fewer logos and trademarks, the more respectable the clothes look. A man's shoes should always be clean. Always carry a brush with you to clean your shoes. Shoes should not smell bad, and to achieve this, they must be constantly looked after. Socks should always be super clean, they are worn for one day and washed. The color of the socks either matches the color of the shoes or the color of the trousers. Sandals and other shoes with holes are worn without socks.
8. Accessories. Which belt to choose depends on your trousers or jeans. You should not wear a denim belt with trousers, just like a trouser belt with jeans. Buy a wallet that matches the color of your belt. Wristwatches are preferably Swiss. A watch says a lot about a man.
Mobile phone - the more expensive the better. And lastly: business men set their phone to vibrate.
I want to “disappoint” you right away - there will be no Kama Sutra here. However, I strongly recommend reading this article to committed couples who will be able to qualitatively improve their sex life, regardless of age.
Breathe together
This technique is a solid foundation for exciting sexual relationships. To confirm what has been said, in order to dispel the doubts that beset you, I will try to describe the principle of its operation.
Try tandem breathing with your partner after you've completely undressed but just before physical contact. Lie down next to each other and look at each other. It is very important that you can not only hear, but see and feel how your partner is breathing.
As a rule, sex therapists suggest the following course of action: “Look closely into your partner’s eyes. Forget about the existence of any boundaries between your bodies and feel like one.” Be that as it may, sexual relations are distinguished by physical contact, which allows one to achieve a simultaneous and longer orgasm.
To do this, the exhalation must be longer than the inhalation. Of course, not everyone will like to turn their bed “orgies” into a breathing training session, but you shouldn’t take everything so literally. Ideally, you should inhale for five counts (1-2-3-4-5) and exhale for eight counts (1-2-3-4-5-6-7-8). By following this breathing technique, you thereby improve the functioning of the cardiovascular system, since more blood, enriched with oxygen and nutrients, flows to the heart. This way, your heart will become more resilient, which will ensure better blood flow to the genitals.
Nor should you completely ignore romance just because the laws of biology work in your interests. After you have been breathing in unison for a while, try the circular breathing exercise. To do this, sit on the bed face to face, knees to knees, while you inhale, your partner exhales. Allow your body to completely relax while your genitals become more sensitive and begin to pulsate.
Don't focus on breathing. This process should happen by itself, without your conscious control. Regular practice of this exercise will help to significantly improve the final result over time. Sex therapists very often advise couples to direct breathing energy to erogenous zones. In fact, there is no strict need for this, since you will already feel your erogenous zones.
Please note that there is nothing out of the ordinary if, while performing the above breathing exercises (when you are both completely naked), you suddenly start laughing like children. Just stop doing the exercise and do what feels most natural to you at the moment.
"Feast of Love"
Throughout its history, humanity has been searching for stimulants that enhance sexual feelings. The most common edible product that effectively stimulates thoughts and, accordingly, the ability to write an exciting novel is chocolate.
The Aztec Emperor Montezuma consumed huge quantities of chocolate, which acted as energy fuel for his romantic dates, drinking 50 mugs of the latter. Unfortunately, history is silent about his weight, which is extremely interesting given such “chocolate addiction.” The legendary seducer of women's hearts, Casanova, preferred chocolate to champagne. The Marquis de Sade's wife sent chocolate to her husband in prison. However, is there any scientific explanation that chocolate stimulates sexual desire?
On a biological level, chocolate is a good source of tryptophan, an amino acid necessary for the brain to successfully produce serotonin. For men, serotonin is necessary for the neurological processes responsible for ejaculation. A lack of serotonin in the female body can lead to anorgasmia - the inability to experience orgasm. Sugar added to chocolates facilitates the delivery of tryptophan to the brain.
Chocolate lovers can reap the same brain chemistry benefits from eating steak, oysters, tofu, or spending a few hours in the sun. You should also not go heavy on chocolate if you don’t have a sweet tooth. In fact, there is nothing in chocolate that cannot be made up by other products.
Products that promote sexual arousal
- Avocado. The Aztecs called this fruit “testicles” due to the similarity of shapes. The fatty acids it contains have anti-inflammatory properties and are good for circulation, but if eating avocado doesn't give you any positive associations or special emotions, then it's unlikely to have a significant impact on your lovemaking.
- Almond- a valuable source of zinc, which helps maintain libido and sexual desire at the proper level. It is worth noting that these effects do not appear immediately, but days and weeks after its regular consumption.
- Arugula. This variety of green lettuce has been used as a sexual stimulant for nearly 2,000 years. The action of this plant is determined not by what processes it activates, but by what it prevents. The bitter taste of the leaves of this salad causes a reflex that stimulates the production of gastric juice. In fact, this is not very useful, especially if you suffer from gastrointestinal disorders, but in love practice this property does not allow the digestive process to interfere with the process of lovemaking, thereby ensuring their clear separation.
- Strawberry. Despite the fact that men, as a rule, give this berry to women, it has a greater impact directly on men. The color red greatly excites the stronger sex, effectively stimulating sexual desire in them.
- Oysters- the most famous stimulant. And here the reason lies not in their nutritional properties, but rather in their slippery, slimy structure and salty taste, which induces a mood for sexual relations in couples. Attention: if you are not a fan of oysters or have simply never tried them, do not rush to fill up on them, as they are unlikely to give you the appropriate sensation.
Orgasm theory
Many men do not understand or even imagine that orgasm is possible without ejaculation. Moreover, sexual intercourse without ejaculation can lead to an even stronger orgasm for both partners, provided that the sexual session is longer.
In fact, successful couples need to actively practice yoga, martial arts, or intensively practice breathing techniques. These practices are certainly useful, but the problem can be solved by increasing the duration of sexual intercourse. If you want to experience multiple orgasms, don't race for time. Listen to your feelings, enjoy each other’s caresses and let this process last as long as possible.
Men in heterosexual relationships must get rid of their “one-two-three” principle, which often does not give women the desired pleasure. The stronger sex considers it unacceptable to delay or pause before the climax, in fact, not even allowing the thought of its positive aspects.
Women need caresses, especially at the preparatory stage, only then will your partner be able to experience full satisfaction. This position of men is due to the fact that they are often simply afraid of losing an erection due to such a delay. In fact, this may very well happen. However, the maximum pleasure from sexual relations is obtained by those couples who are aware and can accept this reality without focusing their attention on it. In this case, you need to be prepared for the fact that even for a man with more than average sexual stamina, the time for the next arousal can take up to 20 minutes.
Women in heterosexual relationships can achieve a more pleasant orgasm, and not only at the genital level, if they share their experiences and wishes with their partner, namely, discuss what they want to feel, how they want to feel and what a man should do to arouse your partner.
This practice of sharing experiences and impressions is useful not only for women. Openly expressing your needs and preferences can greatly improve your sexual relationship.